It's almost a disappointment that he's not being rough on her now. She doesn't want his pity. She definitely doesn't want his gentleness. It feels wrong, so she ignores it.

"The only ones that matter," she says, and points to the larger mound. "I killed him for killing my brother." Her tone is hard. She's never admitted this to anyone, but... well, it's true.

"My father. He was bigger than you." She looks over him with disdain. "So don't give me shit about taking it easy."