Maybe it's just the way things are, Aaron is always going to be looking for some way to turn it so he's the supportive one, not the one in need of comfort. They're well-matched in that Daryl is terrible at offering anything of use, and Aaron's even shittier at admitting he needs it, much less accepting it.

"It's fine if you gotta. We can lit and go pitch bottles at the wall," he answers mildly. "If it helps."

Of all expressions of grief, destructive ones are the ones he understands best.